Embarking on the journey to parenthood through surrogacy can be an exciting yet challenging experience. At Delivering Hope, we recognize that this journey is a deeply personal one, filled with hopes, dreams, and perhaps even some uncertainties. That’s why we dedicate ourselves to ensuring that every intended parent feels fully supported, informed, and cared for throughout the surrogacy process. With a focus on compassion, expertise, and professionalism, we are here to make your dream of becoming parents a beautiful reality. In this blog, we will outline how Delivering Hope works with intended parents to help them find the right surrogate and navigate every step of the surrogacy journey.
For more information on how we support intended parents, visit our Intended Parents of Surrogacy page.
Our Commitment to Supporting Intended Parents
Delivering Hope: Your Surrogacy Agency Partner
At Delivering Hope, we understand that surrogacy is a significant step towards creating the family you’ve always dreamed of. We offer more than just a service; we offer a partnership. From the very beginning of your journey to the moment you hold your baby in your arms, we provide unwavering support. Whether you’ve just started to explore surrogacy or are ready to begin the process, our experienced team is here to make every detail as stress-free and seamless as possible.
The journey begins with a consultation, where we learn about your desires, goals, and expectations. We take the time to understand what you are looking for in a surrogate, answer your questions, and explain every step of the process. This consultation sets the foundation for an open and transparent relationship—one that will carry you through every stage of this transformative journey.
To learn more about our agency and how we work, visit Meet Delivering Hope – Your Surrogate Agency.
Thorough Surrogate Screening Process
Finding the right surrogate is perhaps the most important surrogacy process. Trusting a surrogate to carry your child is a deeply significant decision, and we don’t take that trust lightly. At Delivering Hope, we conduct an extensive screening process to ensure that the surrogate we match with you is capable, healthy, and motivated for the right reasons.
Only 1-2% of surrogate applicants pass our comprehensive screening process. This means that when a surrogate is presented to you, she has already been thoroughly vetted and has demonstrated her readiness and enthusiasm for this incredible role. Our screening process includes:
- Thorough Application Review: We begin by understanding each surrogate’s motivation and commitment.
- Medical History Check: A detailed review of her medical history ensures that she is in optimal health for surrogacy.
- This also includes a drug and nicotine screening.
- Background Check: We conduct background checks on the surrogate, her spouse, and anyone else residing in her home.
- We also require a reference check to further know our potential surrogates.
- Home Visit & Spouse Interview: We conduct a home visit to verify a safe environment and interview her spouse to ensure that her family supports the surrogacy journey.
- Medical & Pregnancy Records Review: We carefully assess previous pregnancy records to confirm that she has had uncomplicated, healthy pregnancies.
- OBGYN Visit & Sign Off: The surrogate must receive medical approval from her OBGYN.
These screening processes are designed to help you feel confident that your surrogate is medically qualified and emotionally prepared to be part of your family-building journey.
Personalized Matching for the Perfect Fit
We match intended parents with surrogates based on multiple factors to ensure a harmonious partnership. Surrogacy is an intimate journey, and we believe that compatibility between the intended parents and surrogate is crucial to a positive experience. We consider criteria such as:
- Communication Styles & Preferences: We match individuals who share similar expectations for communication throughout the pregnancy.
- Values and Stance on Important Issues: Topics such as selective reduction or termination are carefully discussed to ensure all parties are aligned.
- Personality & Goals: We match people based on compatible personalities and life goals to ensure everyone feels comfortable and excited about the journey ahead.
Once we identify a potential match, we share detailed profiles with both you and the surrogate. If both sides express interest, we send the surrogates medical records to your clinic for approval, then we schedule a video chat meeting where you can get to know each other better and ask any questions you may have. If everyone agrees to move forward, we have an official match! This is the beginning of a meaningful relationship that will ultimately result in the creation of your family.
Navigating the Surrogacy Journey Together
Step-by-Step Guidance: From Consultation to Bringing Your Baby Home
At Delivering Hope, our role as a surrogate agency is to make the surrogacy process as smooth and enjoyable as possible for intended parents. We guide you through each step of the process, from initial consultations and applications to contracts, medical screenings, embryo transfers, and ultimately, the birth of your baby.
1. Consultation and Application
The first step is a consultation where we answer all of your questions, learn about your needs, and explain the journey in detail. Once you decide to move forward, you will complete an application that outlines your preferences and expectations for your surrogate. This application will also serve as a profile that helps us match you with the right surrogate.
2. Matching and Screening
Once your application is complete, the matching process begins. When you and a surrogate have expressed interest, a video chat meeting will allow everyone to get acquainted. The meeting happens after both sides have expressed interest; and we send the surrogates medical records to your clinic for approval. Upon agreeing to move forward, the first agency payment is due, and we assist with the medical and psychological screenings for all parties involved, including the surrogate and her spouse. This process ensures that everyone is prepared for the emotional and physical journey ahead.
3. Legal Agreements and Contracts
Navigating the legal aspects of surrogacy can be complex, but Delivering Hope is here to simplify it. We help you find an attorney who is licensed and experienced in surrogacy contracts. They will draft the initial contract for you, and Delivering Hope will also provide your surrogate with her own independent attorney to review and discuss the terms. These agreements cover all expectations, responsibilities, and protections for everyone involved. Around the 20-week mark, your attorney will also initiate the parentage process, ensuring that all necessary legal documents are in place before the birth of your child.
For more information on what to expect from our surrogacy process, visit Connect with a Surrogate Agency.
4. Medical Preparation and Embryo Transfer
Once the contracts are finalized, it’s time to begin medical preparations. The surrogate will follow a medication cycle designed to prepare her body for embryo transfer. We work closely with your IVF clinic to manage every detail, including medications, lab tests, ultrasounds, and even travel arrangements for your surrogate if needed.
The embryo transfer is an incredibly special moment—one that many intended parents choose to attend in person. Delivering Hope will coordinate every aspect of this process to ensure it goes smoothly. About ten days after the transfer, pregnancy will be confirmed via a blood test, and the journey of pregnancy officially begins.
5. Pregnancy and Support
The pregnancy stage is where excitement really builds. From the moment pregnancy is confirmed, your surrogate will have regular medical appointments to monitor the baby’s growth and development. Delivering Hope will support both you and your surrogate throughout the entire pregnancy, keeping you informed and helping facilitate any interactions you want to have with your surrogate—whether it be video conferences, sending gifts, or attending appointments.
We encourage intended parents to remain involved in their surrogate’s pregnancy through attending appointments, sending personalized messages, or even recording your voices to play for the baby. This involvement helps foster a connection with your child before birth and ensures your surrogate feels supported.
6. Birth and Bringing Your Baby Home
The birth of your baby is the culmination of this incredible journey. Delivering Hope will work closely with you, your surrogate, and the medical team to ensure that everything is prepared for the big day. We make sure that all legal documents are in place and help coordinate any logistics so that your only focus on the day of the birth is welcoming your child into the world. After delivery, we continue to offer support to help make the transition home with your baby as joyful and seamless as possible.
Transparent Costs and Financial Guidance
Surrogacy is a significant financial investment, and at Delivering Hope, we prioritize transparency in all costs associated with your journey. We provide you with a clear breakdown of the expected fees, so you can plan accordingly. Here is a brief overview of the anticipated costs:
- Surrogate Base Compensation: At $50,000, surrogate compensation can vary slightly by individual.
- Agency Fees: Totaling $28,000, the agency fees are divided into installments, including payments due at matching, medical clearance, and final contract signing.
- Additional Expenses To Be Anticipated (outside of working with an agency): Medical expenses, legal fees, insurance, travel, and wellness allowances are covered to ensure the complete care and well-being of your surrogate throughout her pregnancy.
We strive to ensure that intended parents are fully informed about all financial aspects, so there are no surprises—just joyful anticipation as you prepare to welcome your little one into your family.
For detailed information on the financial aspects of surrogacy, please visit Intended Parents of Surrogacy.
Why Delivering Hope is the Right Choice for Intended Parents
Choosing a surrogacy agency is a critical decision, and at Delivering Hope, we believe in offering the highest level of personalized care and support. Here are just a few reasons why Delivering Hope is the right choice for your surrogacy journey:
- Comprehensive Surrogate Screening: Our rigorous screening process ensures that the surrogate carrying your child is healthy, capable, and wholeheartedly committed to this journey.
- Personalized Matches: We work hard to match intended parents with surrogates who share similar values and expectations, creating a harmonious and positive relationship.
- Ongoing Support: From the initial consultation through every milestone of pregnancy and beyond, our experienced team is here to guide and support you and your surrogate.
- Transparent Financials: We provide clear, upfront information about all costs involved, allowing you to plan with confidence.
At Delivering Hope, our goal is to make your surrogacy journey as seamless and fulfilling as possible. We are honored to be a part of your path to parenthood and are committed to providing the compassion, expertise, and personalized care you deserve every step of the way.
If you’re ready to take the next step, we invite you to schedule a consultation with us today. Together, we can make your dream of growing your family a reality.
| What should I expect during the initial consultation? |
| During the initial consultation, we will get to know you, understand your needs and desires, and explain the entire surrogacy process in detail. Our goal is to ensure you feel well-informed and comfortable every step of the way. |
| How does Delivering Hope screen surrogates? |
| Our surrogates undergo a comprehensive screening process that includes medical history checks, background checks, home visits, and reference checks. This ensures that only the most committed and qualified individuals are selected. |
| What happens after matching with a surrogate? |
| Once matched, your surrogate will undergo additional medical and psychological screenings. Contracts are signed with the assistance of experienced attorneys, and then the medication cycle and embryo transfer process will begin. |
| What kind of support does Delivering Hope provide during pregnancy? |
| Delivering Hope provides ongoing support for both you and your surrogate throughout the entire pregnancy. This includes assistance with medical appointments, emotional support, and guidance to ensure that both you and your surrogate feel prepared and confident. |
