Embarking on a surrogacy journey is a monumental decision, one that requires courage, compassion, and a strong support system. At Delivering Hope, we understand the complexities and emotions that come with becoming a surrogate, and we are dedicated to providing unparalleled support every step of the way. Whether you are considering becoming a surrogate or are already on this path, Delivering Hope offers a wealth of resources to ensure your experience is positive, fulfilling, and successful. This blog will explore the surrogate services we offer, the extensive support provided by Delivering Hope, and what you can expect as you navigate the surrogacy process.
Comprehensive Surrogate Services at Delivering Hope
Delivering Hope is more than just a surrogacy agency—we are a community built on the foundation of support and compassion. Our goal is to find the best possible match between surrogates and intended parents, fostering relationships that feel like family. We understand that the decision to become a surrogate is not taken lightly, and we are here to guide you through every step of the process.
When you decide to begin your surrogacy journey with Delivering Hope, the first step is to complete our preliminary application. Once you have met all the necessary requirements, you will be invited to complete a full application. After submitting your application, our team will schedule a consultation to discuss further screening questions, what to expect, and answer any questions you may have about the surrogacy process.
During the matching phase, we create a profile using information from your application. Once an intended parent selects your profile, a “get to know you” interview is scheduled via a video call that includes you, the intended parents, and Delivering Hope. If both parties agree to move forward, a match is made, and the journey officially begins. This careful matching process is just one way we ensure that surrogates and intended parents share common goals and expectations, setting the stage for a successful and harmonious surrogacy experience.
For more detailed information about the surrogacy process and how we support our surrogates, visit our Meet Delivering Hope: Your Surrogate Agency page.
Extensive Support and Resources for Surrogates
At Delivering Hope, we believe that support comes in many forms, from emotional encouragement to practical assistance. Our comprehensive support system is designed to ensure that surrogates feel valued, cared for, and empowered throughout their journey.
One of the ways we provide support is through our monthly in-person support groups held in Boise, ID , Texas, and Coeur d’Alene, Idaho along with other hubs throughout the USA. Delivering Hope also holds monthly virtual support groups for all of our surrogates, no matter where they are located in the USA. These in-person gatherings offer a space for surrogates to connect, share their experiences, and receive guidance from our team and fellow surrogates. Additionally, we offer a 24/7 Facebook support group for all past and present Delivering Hope surrogates, providing a platform for continuous support and community.
We also understand the importance of accessibility, which is why we offer multiple contact outlets for surrogates to reach us whenever needed. Whether it’s via phone, video chat, text, or email, our team is always available to answer questions, provide reassurance, and assist with any concerns that may arise.
Beyond emotional and practical support, Delivering Hope adds a touch of fun and care to the surrogacy experience. Surrogates receive customized ice cream treats from Salt & Straw when they start medications, because we believe that a little sweetness can go a long way in making the journey more enjoyable. Throughout the pregnancy, we send Bump Boxes filled with thoughtful gifts, and we provide a transfer day box with a special shirt, socks, and treats to celebrate the significant milestones in the process.
If you are interested in becoming a surrogate and want to learn more about the resources and support we offer, take the next step and start your journey with us by filling out this form.
What to Expect When Navigating the Surrogacy Process
The surrogacy journey is a multifaceted process that involves several key phases, each with its own set of expectations and responsibilities. Understanding what to expect at each stage can help you navigate the journey with confidence and peace of mind.
Medical Screening and Psych Evaluation
Once a match is made, the next phase of the surrogacy process involves medical screening and a psychological evaluation. You will undergo bloodwork and a saline ultrasound. Additionally, a psychological evaluation will be conducted over the phone to ensure that you are emotionally prepared for the surrogacy journey. These steps are standard in the surrogacy process and are designed to ensure the health and well-being of both the surrogate and the baby.
Legal Contracts and Embryo Transfer
After the medical and psychological evaluations are complete, the contract phase begins. The intended parents’ attorney will draft a contract, and Delivering Hope will provide representation for you, paid for by the intended parents. Your attorney will review the contract with you to ensure that you fully understand your responsibilities and expectations, and any necessary changes will be made. Once all parties sign the contracts, you can begin the medication regimen in preparation for the embryo transfer.
The embryo transfer is a critical moment in the surrogacy journey. The fertility clinic will send you a calendar outlining your medication and appointment schedule, and several ultrasounds will be performed to confirm that your uterine lining is optimal for the transfer. After the transfer, you may need to rest for 1-2 days, and all arrangements, including travel if necessary, will be covered by the intended parents.
Pregnancy and Ongoing Support
About ten days after the embryo transfer, pregnancy will be confirmed via a blood test. You will have several appointments with your clinic or lab to monitor hormone levels, and an ultrasound will be scheduled at 6-8 weeks to confirm a heartbeat. During this time, base compensation payments will begin. Around 8-10 weeks of pregnancy, you will transition to an obstetrician in your area who will oversee your care for the remainder of the pregnancy.
Throughout the pregnancy, Delivering Hope will continue to support you and the intended parents. We maintain a high level of communication, regularly checking in with you and offering assistance whenever needed. We want to ensure that you feel supported and empowered throughout the entire journey. For additional details on what to expect as a surrogate, visit our Surrogacy FAQ page.
The Importance of Spousal Support
Surrogacy is not just a journey for the surrogate—it’s a journey for her entire family, especially her significant other. Spousal support is crucial to ensuring a positive and successful surrogacy experience. Open communication between the surrogate and her spouse is essential, as the surrogacy process can impact intimacy, household responsibilities, and daily activities.
At Delivering Hope, we recognize the importance of including spouses in the surrogacy journey. We provide resources specifically for surrogate spouses, such as “The Dad Series,” a video series that addresses common concerns and questions from surrogate husbands. This series helps spouses better understand their role and offers guidance on how to navigate the surrogacy experience alongside their partner. For more information and resources for spouses, visit our Spouse of Surrogate Information page.
By involving your spouse in key moments, such as medical appointments or video calls with the intended parents, you can help them feel more connected to the process and reinforce the partnership and teamwork that are essential in this journey. Appreciating their support and acknowledging the sacrifices they make can strengthen your relationship and ensure that the surrogacy experience is a positive one for your entire family.
For additional resources and support, explore our various Delivering Hope Locations, where you can be sure we have people in-person ready to provide any support or resources needed. We support surrogates all over the United States while our hubs are in location that Surrogates can visit for in-person needs or group activities.
Start Your Surrogacy Journey with Delivering Hope
At Delivering Hope, we are honored to be a part of your surrogacy journey, providing you with the support, resources, and care you need to make this experience as fulfilling and successful as possible. Whether you are just starting to consider becoming a surrogate or are already on this path, we are here to guide you every step of the way.
If you’re ready to take the next step and explore becoming a surrogate, we encourage you to fill out our form to see if you qualify. We look forward to helping you make a lasting impact on a family’s life and supporting you throughout this remarkable journey.
What kind of support does Delivering Hope provide to surrogates during the surrogacy journey?
Delivering Hope offers comprehensive support, including monthly support groups, a 24/7 Facebook support group, and multiple contact outlets (phone, video chat, text, email). Additionally, surrogates receive Bump Boxes, personalized treats, and bonus incentives throughout the process to make their journey smoother and more enjoyable.
What is the process for matching a surrogate with intended parents at Delivering Hope?
The matching process involves creating a profile based on your application. Once an intended parent selects your profile, a video interview is arranged with the intended parents, yourself, and Delivering Hope. If both parties agree to proceed, a match is made, and a matching sheet outlining expectations and requirements is signed. For more information on the matching process read more about the Surrogate journey by clicking here.
How does Delivering Hope ensure that surrogates and their spouses are supported throughout the surrogacy process?
Delivering Hope provides resources like “The Dad Series,” a video series addressing common concerns from surrogate spouses. The agency emphasizes open communication and encourages spouses to stay involved in key moments, such as medical appointments and video calls with intended parents, to strengthen the partnership and ensure the success of the surrogacy journey. We also have a page dedicated to spouses of surrogates found here.
What should surrogates expect during the medical and legal phases of the surrogacy process?
After matching, surrogates undergo medical screening, including bloodwork and a psychological evaluation. During the legal phase, the intended parents’ attorney drafts a contract, which is reviewed with the surrogate by a separate attorney provided by Delivering Hope. Once the contract is signed, surrogates begin the medication regimen in preparation for the embryo transfer.
